PRAYER FOR CLEARING & STEPPING OUT OF THE ABUSE CYCLE 

FOR SELF AND OTHERS

 

Today I send prayer out to all people who are being abused

and are stuck home with their perpetrators

We ask the Light to enter 

and we see the Light create miracles for them

feelings and thoughts that arise from nowhere for them to go

and miracle places that arise from nowhere for them to go to

safe places opening and becoming a reality

Then the healing to occur

To enable them to go through all the emotions of shame, hatred, anger

on the path back to self love self worth and wholeness

as they bring in sacred boundary to say no to others and yes to selves

no matter their age

I also see miracles where abusers have sudden awakening

to see clarity and stop what they do

and to go through all the emotions of shame anger hatred

until they reach self love and self worth and are able 

to love others as they love themselves.

I see this as a reality.

I see love.

It all starts with self love.

Whether the abuse is extreme and obvious or silent and subtle and seemingly minor

For we have ALL been victim of this pattern in some way

It is still abuse

And the only way out

is 

self

love

Whether you be the abuser or the abused

and very often the abuser was once the abused

or perhaps the abused becomes an over giver and empath

again neglecting the self

whatever the story

The way home is self Love

So join me in speaking these words of prayer out loud -

We ask the Light to enter 

and we see the Light create miracles for them

feelings and thoughts that arise from nowhere for them to go

and miracle places that arise from nowhere for them to go to

safe places opening and becoming a reality

Then the healing to occur

To enable them to go through all the emotions of shame, hatred, anger

on the path back to self love self worth and wholeness

as they bring in sacred boundary to say no to others and yes to selves

no matter their age

I also see miracles where abusers have sudden awakening

to see clarity and stop what they do

and to go through all the emotions of shame anger hatred

until they reach self love and self worth and are able 

to love others as they love themselves.

I see this as a reality.

I see love.

And now put one hand on heart and one hand on womb or hara

and say - 

I am self love, self worth self belief

I am beautiful

I believe in myself

I feel my beauty

I feel my sacred boundary radiate as I understand how boundaries are beautiful and allow for healthy relationships based on mutual honour and respect

Just reflecting on what the word ‘boundary’ means for you

As I love myself I am able to allow myself to love others and allow others to be able to love me

And so it is.

It is time we all rise!

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IN THESE BEAUTIFUL PAINTINGS by Evelyn de Morgan

I see Ariadne go through her transformation and arise as Flora just like Mary Magdalene now rises from whore to Goddess. Just like all women now step more firmly into the self worth.

This symbolises the female emotional yin side of us all whatever our gender.

 

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There are many different versions of the myth of Ariadne. In one story she betrays her dominant father Minos who has set her up to be married to the dreaded Dionysus. Against his wishes, she denies the marriage and instead shares secrets of the labyrinth to her rescuer the young and handsome Theseus, so he may slay a beast & then they may elope. However he quickly and easily abandons her on a remote island when Dionysus chases after them. In some stories she thus begins to love Dionysus when she sees that the extent of his love and devotion for her is far deeper than Theseus' vanity. Ariadne's thread symbolises the golden thread used to get through the labyrinth (the underworld) so that we do not get lost. 

 

Regardless of the many versions of this myth, I like to imagine that Ariadne rises to save and find herself with her golden thread as she journeys through her labyrinth.